A Picture Paints a Thousand Words!
Some months ago, many of my early galleries were removed from my site. I’m delighted that they have now been re-instated. Some of them will serve as a reminder to those who have visited over the years, but if you are new to my site, I hope you will enjoy acquainting yourself with them! They can be found under the tab “gallery 1” on the site’s main page – why use words when pictures say it all! Thank you, dear P for re-establishing them!
A Review by Slave D
D came to visit last week – this is what he had to say about our time together.
“I’m an experienced slave, and have visited Mistress Victoria previously. It had been too long since my last visit, but I recently got the chance to return. It’s fair to say that I was itching to get back in to “sub space”.
What a wonderful few hours we had together. I was collared, shackled, locked in a chastity device, whipped, caned and much, much more. These details don’t matter as they simply reflect my interests.
What does matter is the wonderful person I served. Mistress Victoria is living proof that a truly Dominant Woman can also be kind, caring and understanding. She listened carefully to my emotional as well as physical needs and then met them exactly, including adding her own delicious and slightly wicked spin.
Don’t mistake my mention of her kindness with any lack of intent. I left with my backside red and striped, having been well and truly thrashed, as well as with the sorest of nipples. More importantly I left refreshed and energised, and so glad of the experience.
Thank you, Mistress. xx”
Read, Mark and Inwardly Digest!
It is widely accepted that technical instructions are written for men, who never bother to read them – they simply wade in to install, wire or assemble. Broadly speaking, women struggle to understand such directives, probably because they are written by men. The guidelines below came with a fan heater I recently bought. Not only are they clear and concise with no room for misunderstanding, but should certainly be applied to men, when doing their research in finding a mistress!
Back Burner!
In case you have ever wondered about arranging a smoking session, this does not have to be hard core. When sessioning with G, cigarettes and leather gloves are the only props needed for a truly enjoyable time. However, if you were to consider something a little more “demanding”, I am only too happy to oblige – but I don’t always watch just where the ash lands, and might just wish to leave my “mark” …..
Face Cream!
M is a really good sport (although a rugby league and not a union, fan). He is always up for exploring different aspects of what’s on offer when he comes to visit. He was keen to try forced feeding – and what better way to do that than with a fresh, squidgy chocolate éclair! Naturally, being a perfect gentlemen, he had brought further éclairs for us to enjoy (and feed to ourselves) with a cuppa afterwards. Some days I feel like the cat that’s got the cream!
Thank You For The Music!
After his session (which was his first ever with a mistress) last week, D presented me with some thoughtful gifts. This one really made me smile – the thought put into it was clever, time consuming and of course, wholly appropriate!!
15 top songs to listen to while you work?
Release Me – Tom Jones
Chains – The Beatles
Down Down – Status Quo
Easy Lover – Phil Collins
Do You Really Want to Hurt Me? – Culture Club
Girls and Boys – Blur
Touch Me (I Wanna Feel Your Body) – Sam Fox
Under My Thumb – The Rolling Stones
I Touch Myself – Divinyl
Slave To Love – Roxy Music
Girls Just Wanna Have Fun – Cyndi Lauper
Kinky Boots – Patrick McNee/Honor Blackman
Hanky Panky – Madonna
Mercy – Duffy
These Boots Are Made For Walking – Nancy Sinatra
There is only one song that I could add – of course it has to be – “Hit Me With Your Rhythm Stick”!
A Review by H
Here’s what H said after his visit last week.
I had been to see 4/5 mistress over a period of time, all for school scenarios. They were mainly disappointing.
I decided therefore that I wanted to “progress” to a more bdsm scenario and I looked at mistresses in the North West. I kept looking at Mistress Victoria’s website and was impressed by her equipment and her general demeanour in her postings and blogs. I eventually plucked up the courage to send her an email outlining what I wanted , mainly very tight bondage and cp. I received a very encouraging response by email and that prompted me to give Mistress Victoria a ring to discuss a possible session. She was very reassuring and encouraging and we discussed options for the session. Her attitude impressed me and I knew I would be safe in her hands. So much so that I booked a 2 hour session with her.
The session was 2 weeks away and the waiting was excruciating! The journey was 45 miles long but worth every mile. I parked as instructed and telephoned her. I was given clear instructions to her house which was easy to find. After my long journey I was given a cup of tea and we spoke again about what I wanted. I thought her planning was meticulous. She had my original email printed out and she had made notes following our initial telephone conversion and was certainly well prepared.
On entering her dungeon I was amazed at the equipment on display. I was quickly secured in one of her sleep sacks to the bench with a rubber hood on my head – bliss.
I experienced wax play for the first time and this was both pain and pleasure. I won’t go into details about the session, other than to say that my limits were pushed in a controlled way and I always felt safe, which for me was very important. I received cp and she was certainly an expert in administering punishment. All in all the experience was beyond my expectations and made up for previous disappointments.
Mistress Victoria certainly didn’t clock watch and the session progressed as we had agreed.
After the session was over I took advantage of the shower facilities and then I had another cup of tea with Mistress Victoria to discuss my session and things in general. I was fearful of her in session, but outside of the formal session she was easy to talk to and very pleasant. I certainly respected her from the word go!
I am already planning a return visit when I am able.
A review by “Mr T”
Mr T and I have spent some lovely “times” together – and this is what he has to say.
I have been visiting Mistress Victoria for a number of years now we believe up to 7!
I have found Mistress to be, in short, a lovely lady who is warm welcoming and articulate and I for one consider her to be a very good friend.
She caters for a very wide range of kinks and fetishes and her premises are very well equipped. I would suggest anyone considering paying a visit to check out her Twitter page/site which provides a great deal of information over and above her website. I would add that the website contains a short film of Mistress setting out what she is about and is worth a look!
My personal taste is for CP which Mistress Victoria is only too willing to carry out and provides me with much excitement and exhilaration! Her Mistress and Headmistress incarnations are wonderful and WPC Stewart is something to behold! Each character has subtle differences which for me make it all worthwhile.
Sessions always begin with a cuppa and a chat and we move on to what we want to do and we agree on what room, equipment and implements are to be used. I would add that it pays to be honest over how your session proceeds. Take my last session for instance I found that I was going to struggle with her vaulting horse and Mistress was only too willing to change tack and we used something else.
When your session comes to its inevitable end there is time for another cuppa and chat or debrief. All in all a lovely Mistress willing to listen and do as much as she can for you to get the best out of your session and she is very exacting when “in role”!
Mind Your Manners!
I have always hoped that my website gives enough information without being a minefield of “do’s and don’ts. I welcome the fact that people visit me because they are kinky. Kinky can, though doesn’t always, mean submissive.
If you are contacting me for the first time, please consider these points, as some approaches from potential visitors can leave me a little cold.
- Phoning or sending a text in the middle of the night makes me think you are up to no good!
- E-mails, texts or direct messages on twitter or Fetlife that just say “Hi” will not elicit a response.
- If you send me a picture of your cock, I will not reply to your message.
- I never make an appointment with a new client unless we have spoken on the phone. I am old fashioned in terms of communication. Chatting gives us each a “feel” for the other.
- Whilst I am happy to communicate by e-mail prior to speaking on the phone, I do not exchange countless messages – you might be a time waster.
- I certainly do not play text “ping pong” pre-session – texting is my least favourite means of communication but can be used to make contact once we have met.
- If you tell me that you have no limits, I am likely to push you against a hot radiator, which will prove the opposite of what you have said.
- Please respect the fact that I too, have limits as well as great respect for those I session with. I appreciate your respect in return.
- I do not offer forced bi, hard sports or any sexual services.
- I don’t bite, but if you push my buttons, I just might!
Never Too Old!
Many of my “gents” are older – but then I am too! Age brings so many gifts – hang ups are lessened, experience is consolidated and grumpiness is a natural state of mind! I love the poem “When I Grow Old I Shall Wear Purple” (maybe I ought to practice a little now?). But, I digress …..
K is not “old” – just older, and together we banish our “Monday Blues” when he comes to visit. Exploration is the name of the game, boundaries are pushed, but above all, we have FUN! Why should I worry about just for how long I will be able to totter about in my high heels, or how my laughter lines are turning to wrinkles, when bdsm can be enjoyed by those of us for whom the flush of youth is but a distant memory?
As I often say to those “gents” who are tentative about visiting a mistress because they feel age may be a barrier “why go to your grave not knowing?!”
